For those of you who are habitual of using this phrase quite frequently, where it doesn’t lose meaning, it doesn’t have the same effect either. Even though there’s nothing wrong with it, it’d be great to mix it up a bit. Maybe tell them what you especially love about them. It’d show that you’ve actually made an effort rather than just saying ‘I love you’ out of routine. It could also prove to be stimulating for both of you. So here are a few things you could say to surprise them instead of simply saying ‘I love you’: You’re hot! You admire the way they look, but don’t seem to mention that as often or don’t compliment them as much either. So it’d be a good idea to tell them that instead of the so-often-used phrase. It’s a good thing to remind them that you find them attractive. You don’t just look good, you look absolutely amazing and I can’t seem to take my eyes off you translates more or less into you’re so effing hot! (Not just hot, superlative degree of hot!). My love for you grows with each passing day Love does grow with time. So saying this would show that you do acknowledge this fact and also notice it. You could always add something to it. For instance, how you’ve grown to love some habit of theirs, or the way they talk when they’re excited and so on. You can make me laugh like no one else Having a sense of humor is great, but having a clever sense of humor is even better. It helps keeping things on the lighter side. In long term relationships, we tend to take certain things for granted. We grow out of the habit of mentioning the things we love about our partners. So this would not only serve as a reminder and a compliment but the ‘no one else’ part makes it all the more special. You’ll notice how they focus on making you laugh even more frequently as a result. ‘I love the way your body flirts with my mind’ Make sure they know exactly how much you crave their body. Yes, there are things more important than the body and it may seem superficial to some people. But at some point in your relationship, things like these become equally important. You’re both sure of how you feel about each other. Why not assure them that you also want them. You’re the only person I’d be willing to put up with every day Everyone has those days when you just don’t feel like dealing with anything. You don’t want to be around anyone. And you can’t be bothered with anything or anyone for that matter. The only person whose presence doesn’t bother you even then is theirs. This is the probably the most meaningful thing you could ever say to them and it’d be received very with gratitude as well. How much you love watching them do something they’re passionate about For some people, it is these very things that bring them together. It’s a great idea to keep revisiting the very moments you felt something for the first time. It conveys the admiration you have for them, and could possibly stir something in them too. I love our conversations as much as the quietude It takes some time and effort to build something with someone, where silence becomes comfortable. You are capable of understanding their silence like you understand their words. And the silence isn’t awkward at all; it’s actually serene in its own way. I don’t know how, you’ve become more attractive over time Deny it all you want, but we’re all concerned with the way we look; especially when we’re growing old with someone. You’re always worried about them losing interest in you. You’re always worried if they still find you attractive or not. Put them out of their misery. Tell them exactly what has gotten better with age. You’ll see how their face lights up! I love our ‘rendezvous’ Like everything else, monotony in the bedroom (or outside) isn’t appreciated as much either. Experiment! Act out your fantasies. Do whatever you’re comfortable with and keep it anew. I ‘FUCKING’ love you Everything prefixed with the f-word tends to have a certain impact. And you say it with a certain vigor as well. There’s no better way of saying something you actually mean. Swearing does a great job at that! Well these are just a few things you could use. Get creative. Come up with something eccentric. Make them laugh. Make them listen to what you’re saying and make sure they feel it too!
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Dear J.P. the most beautiful soul I have known!
I am talking to you, the girl that has lost her smile among the selfish faces in the streets of Brooklyn. Time to look around. To look for that sparkle that you radiated when you believed that love was all you ever needed. Its truth, love is all you need except that I am referring to Self-Love not the one that depends on what other chose to offer you. You see, the only absolute truth of life is that you cannot force anyone to love you. If you were ever to rely on that belief, you will age still waiting for a little crumble of affection thrown your away but never getting all that you soul needs to bloom. Waiting in silence will crush your ambitions in life, your pillow will carry the scent of your salty tears, your dreams clouded with broken promises and suddenly the future doesnt seem like it carries any hope. Along the lines you question the existence of God. You wonder why life keeps smacking you in the face. You forget to acknowledge the blessing and the fact that real love flows effortless within yourself and it releases the very same energy to others. Stop worrying if you are Fat! Stop worrying if you not Beautiful. Stop questioning your worth. Stop being your own worse judge. Because my dear beautiful soul, a worthy person will love you to pieces no matter what you are shaped or made off. Thats what makes real love stand out from all the ordinary loves people experience in life. Some will love the shape of your ass, some the sparkle of your eyes, some the firmness of your breasts, but ONE, the very best ONE will LOVE YOU! All of YOU. Mostly because you are not perfect. Because you make mistakes and it makes him smile because he realizes that perfection doesnt exist and that he is suddenly need to guide, understand and accept. He would look at your worries face, touch the tip of your nose, squeeze it and kiss your face like its the first time he laid eyes on you. Today, instead of worrying where the roads of life will take you if you dont plan, just sit there on your window sill, smoke a cigarette, speak to the moon, and just breathe. Notice the silence of night showing you with the beauty of the stars. Lets the reflection dance around as if they were meant just for you. Let life be. Deliberately do nothing but JUST BE. In that magical moment tell yourself "I am OK"; tell yourself that you "Dont need anyone to complete you"; understand that you are already "Perfect & Complete". I know that sometimes it wont help and you might just want to scream or cry but than again why not do just that. Its OK to cry. Its OK to feel down. It NOT OK to stop progress doubting all that God, Stars, Universe, Life has in store for you. You forgot to love yourself! You spend the days, avoiding pain by marking your body with cuts. You spend the afternoon looking for escape from reality. You spend the evening wetting your pillows. Minutes, hours, days, spend waiting on HIM to notice the greatness within you. He didnt because you always tried to hard. You got taken for granted and another disappoint set in. Another day; Another month to look for another escape from pain. You spend your life loving without getting much in return and you keep letting that happen because you believe in the good. Your spirit is not broken yet, just a few cracks here and there. Time has come to grow in another level. I am talking to YOU! One sunny morning you will wake up, reaching to make that cup of coffee and you will crack up at the thought of what used to weight you down. You might even feel a bit ashamed for all the drama and sleepless nights, but so what.... You will walk again the streets of Brooklyn with that radiant smile that makes everyone turn their head, and sometimes a random backward guy will speak to you, but other times another charismatic will be appreciating the beauty he gets to see just by passing near YOU. You see another one will look at you twice, envision a life with you, give you a son who can run into your arms, because he is different. Because he is not a "happiness thief" like the others from the past. He is real. He cannot afford not to be near the miracle that YOU ARE. That is the one you give a chance. That one person that looks at you as the most beautiful thing he has laid eyes on. Tell him a story about you that will make him laugh like he never did and find himself under your spell. But most importantly, in your twenties do all the things you kept hidden in your heart. Walk up to stranger and tell them they are beautiful. Pick a flower and gift that to an old lady. Hold your mothers hands and walk in the park like when you were little. Hold the door for an old man walking the same store as you. Sit on your front door and love the trees that surround your environment. Invite people who never let you down at your home to share a pitcher of sangria & guacamole. Place your hand on top of the person you love the most and promise you will be the creator you were born to be. I Promise YOU...One day you will look back and all the small things you did will be the memories YOU CREATED and shaped you towards your greatness. You are beautiful. You are amazing. You are outstanding. You are life. You are the greatest perfect imperfection. With Love, From Me! PROUD TO BE ALBANIAN....BUT I STAY AWAY FROM CON ARTISTS WITH FAKE NON PROFIT ORGANIZATIONS5/16/2016 YES, I AM PROUD...I CARRY THAT EAGLE WITHIN MY HEART THE RED WITHIN MY BLOOD. When I say that I truly mean it unlike some who these days take for granted where they come from...
This has been said before and I am only going to repeat it: Albanians are held by BESA! Contrary to the belief that everyone knows the meaning of it, I like to argue that most people we meet daily have no clue about it. It easy to use a word..but is it so easy to actualize the meaning of it? On a personal level I am very positive in my life visions therefore I tend to allow myself to expand the positive vibes & motivation for pretty much everyone I come in contact with. However, lately I have had the misfortune of meeting a few people who not only I am not proud they are part of the the community, but I consider them POISON! First of all let me clear something UP! I am NOT a non profit organization. I have created businesses and ideas that can expand and empower my own people (,mostly women) but that is of course not be be mistaken with non profits. I do not ask for help. I ask for people who are willing participants in empowering themselves, and people of many talents that make a living through their work. Within the recent events I have meet various people who are a pleasure to be around. Its amazing how beautifully people with missions and visions come together and become one. Among the great ones I meet in particular one woman who turned out to be POISON. A woman who came to me seeking help in improving her "organization" which is nothing but a scheme for personal profit. I want to publicly tell HER and everyone else that I am nice but rarely easy to fool. First of all, consider yourself very lucky that you got the opportunity to even be on my presence. YES I AM THAT GREAT! Secondly, people like you DONT CHANGE THE WORLD, they ruin the amazing people and things life has to offer. Third, there is a reason why you cant move forward, that reason is the dark poison in your soul that you feed yourself and others with. Finally, its only fair for the whole community to know that you are one of the CON ARTISTS around walking in that self entitlement which you never get. You will be walking the roads of life in regret, remorse and the lack of confidence that is clear on YOU!. On a more positive note, MANY of ALBANIANS are wonderful! Please everyone stay away from Con Artists. (I have not included the name of the person or their fake organization only because I believe in second changes and perhaps there is hope this woman will re evaluate her mission in life) The Tools You Need For Personal Evolution, Expansion & Transformation Rich Living Begins Here & Now!5/16/2016 People at the top of true success realize the dire necessity and opportunity in getting the most out of themselves. And getting the most out of yourself doesn’t happen to you. You…happen to it.That’s why it’s called "development." It must be developed.If we invested as much time annually honing and increasing our personal abilities as we do planning a vacation, researching a new car or home purchase, or even seeking out entertainment, we’d drastically reinvent ourselves for the better every year!The difference between staying where you are indefinitely, and realizing a new lease on life and true success where you desire it, is the actions you take and the work you put into it..
The Foundation of our Life Coaching & Transformation, is designed for the individuals who want to build a Rich Life in all aspects of their existence. Taking time to evaluate how much fortitude and stability we are comprised of is essential before we start the building process. In most cases our Foundation is either cracked or porous rendering it too frail to build upon. Foundations disintegrate throughout our lifetime when fear, pain and grief cause small fractures. This love allows us to develop an appreciation for who we are and we begin to own our potential as Master of Success. The love we grow for ourselves comes through self-awareness and becomes the essence of our transformation into Rich Living with unlimited possibilities. Tap Into The Incredible Power Of Your Subconscious Mind! The spiritual teacher Esther Hicks said:“Seventeen seconds of focused, pleasurable visualization is stronger than 2000 hours of working to obtain a goal.”This is a secret that proponents of creative visualization have known for years. Today science is beginning to show some evidence why…Most people only set goals at the conscious level — which is only 1-5% of your potential resources.But according to cutting-edge research from Dr. Bruce Lipton at Stanford University Medical Center, it is your subconscious mind that ultimately casts the deciding vote on how much success, abundance, happiness, health and freedom you experience in your life.Dr Lipton explains that “most people don’t even acknowledge that their subconscious mind is at play, when the fact is it is a million times more powerful that the conscious mind, and that we operate 95 to 99 percent of our lives from subconscious programs.”And your subconscious mind has been programmed with a blueprint that contains limits for (among other things) how happy we can be, how much money we’ll make, what our relationships can be like, what type of vacations you’ll take, how fit you can become, what kind of car you’ll drive…So now, the question becomes this: Are there proven methods to change your subconscious blueprint and create breakthroughs in every area of your life? Tap Into The Power of Creative Visualization And Unlock Your Passion, Abundance, And Purpose Creative Visualization is a more than just a secret used by extraordinary achievers. It’s the simplest way for you to reprogram your subconscious, so you experience more success in almost any area of your life. It doesn’t matter if you want to drive a newer car, take a 5-star family vacation, find a way to get a pay raise, or even if you want to totally transform your life. Creative Visualization is the key. There is a sense of accomplishment on the inner planes as the cosmic alignments and human activities are taking place upon your planet. Your loving energies have been given and applied where it is needed the most and every particle has been utilized for the highest good of all, with loving gratitude and appreciation for your efforts. You are loved so very much by your Family of Light! Every particle of Light expands and fills all the places and spaces that are shifting as the shadows recede and in this way is growing exponentially. It is touching the hearts of all upon the planet, and even those who keep trying to douse the holy flame burning within their own heart. It is a time for deep reflection upon that which still needs to be purged and released from every person’s soul and looking deeply within self is a conscious choice that requires total honesty and courage. The fire within you demands such scrutiny and you are capable of it as you continue to follow your own star!
Following your own star means choosing to be your own best friend. It means lavishing kindness, compassion and love upon your own being, and remembering that you are an openhearted soul who is goodness incarnate. Release the past experiences where that goodness was taken advantage of by others who did not take the high road as do you. Let go of the wounds within you that these actions placed upon your soul. You were and are innocent and you are not responsible for the souls who choose to stay in the old paradigm levels of staying small. Let go of the need to ‘save’ them from themselves and their own choices. Nurture yourself and walk tall upon your world, for your Light and your goodness is very much appreciated, as is your ability to expand that Light in ever widening circles of radius. Sooner or later, this will touch all hearts in an opening and expanding way. Success comes to you as a result of your own efforts and you have all that you need to move forward in the fruition of your dreams, goals and visions. You are ones who must always share the gifts you receive with others, for that is your very nature and you must always be true to self. Give honor to the feminine aspect within you by choosing to work with others in a cooperative manner and by the showing of respect for the diversity of all people. The feminine energy manifests in each individual as a willingness to learn new ways to make one’s ideals and ideas workable. The feminine energy places the importance of life first by taking care of the Earth and all her inhabitants. The feminine influence and foremost law is that there be harm to none. This includes an acknowledgement and honoring of the air, water, fire, earth and cosmic elements for their contribution to the beauty and evolvement of the planet. Everything works together for the common good of all. This is the direction that life upon your planet is once again headed and which will once again prevail. You have learned that positive thought creates positive change on the Earth. Your efforts to create a world where everyone’s real needs are met, where everyone is free, respected and equal has been and is, creating changes within individual consciousness which in turn is vital and most helpful in group and world consciousness. When there are storms, visualize the winds gentling, the storms easing, the tornado’s moving away from populated areas. Where there is a trouble spot in the world, send love and compassion to heal it and to lessen its pain. Be brave and project healing thoughts of love to your planet, to all her inhabitants and all her elements. As the collective consciousness changes so does the Earth move and evolve in that direction also. This is the beauty of peaceful and positive change that comes through mindful and loving intention. There is a need to support each other and the Earth. Send love and gratitude to your planet for her fidelity to you, her inhabitants. She has been in a holding pattern for many years, trying to wait for humanity to awaken and join her in the great opportunity that has now come forth for all. She is ready to move forward on her Ascension into the higher dimensions. She wants to take you along with her. When you align in Oneness with the Earth Mother, many miracles of healing and restoration will take place. |
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